dilluns, de gener 16, 2006

Visca el futbol escolar.

Sóc pare, a més d'educador. Pot semblar redundant, però no ho és. Fer de mestre, si t'agrada, és relativament senzill, perquè quan dius PROU, és PROU i un NO és un NO.

Fer de pare té més variables, alguna de les quals no s'arriben a controlar. Diguem que de vegades un NO es converteix en un DESPRÉS o el PROU en UNA MICA MÉS, només... Però això és més vell que el pixar a terra i ho deixaré per a futurs posts.
Com a pare, acompanyo el meu fill gran (8 anys) als partits de futbol escolar cada dissabte al matí , jugant a diferents camps del Vallès o de Barcelona. Fa ja 4 anys que voltem i n'he vist de tots colors. Però el passat dissabte, a un camp de Barcelona que prefereixo no dir, vaig viure escenes d'una violència, per a mi, més que preocupants: pares histèrics, cridant com a bojos i encoratjant els seus fills amb frases com: " ¡ pégale fuerte, coño !" "¡ será inútil !" " ¡ árbitro cabrón ! "etc...
Em va sobtar veure un parell de mares vorejant l'atac de nervis a cada jugada d'atac del seu equip. En fi, un desastre.
Per desgràcia vam guanyar 3 a 5. I ho dic sinzerament perquè hagués preferit perdre 10 a 0 i no haver assistit al lamentable espectacle.
És clar que a la tarda, veient amb el meu fill el partit de barça i havent-me esforçat per neutralitzar l'agressivitat del matí, no vaig saber què dir-li quan els seus ídols escopien o estiraven dels cabells als seus adversaris.
Tot plegat, lamentable.
PD. Gaudeixen els nens africans veient i patint com la prepotència dels rics del Nord es diverteixen travessant els seus camins i sentint l'essència del desert?

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Deixa passar un temps i veuràs com fins i tot el Yoga es torna una pràctica agressiva...
L'únic que pot fer com a pare i com a educador és no deixar passar aquestes experiències endebades, aprofita-les per explicar als teus els valors que algun dia va tenir la societat i que poc a poc s'estan perdent. Un beset, sort i molta paciència!

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Lamentable! I desprès aquests mateixos pares es queixaran de l'educació del jovent!

Petjada ha dit...

Si, frederic, són d'aquelles contradiccions tan difícils d'entendre! A l'escola on treballo hi ha uns quants pares així, i a les entrevistes intenten fardar de ser els millors pares. Trist, molt trist.

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em preocupa molt tot això que dius.
Jo no sóc mare però sóc tutora de 23 criatures de 12 anys i quan m'entreviste amb els pares i mares hi ha vegades que al·lucine pels comentaris, la manera d'estar, de relacionar-se entre ells...
En fi...

ignasi ha dit...

Perdoneu el retard però he hagut de formatejar l'ordinador. Horrorós.
Ara sembla tot ok!!!

La realitat és molt violenta. Els pares en són responsables al 100 x 100.
Els mestres sembla que tinguem la culpa dels mals però això ho fan per no reconèixer els seus errors.

Ara bé. Si a l'escola permetéssim el què fan ells !!!! mare meva....

Liendre ha dit...

Déu ni do, almenys als instituts...
Veig que la comunitat docent invaeix la blogosfera...;)
Sóc reàcia a la caça de culpables específics....la culpa va ser del Txa Txa Txa...
Sobre els nens africans...una pluja de meteorits ha de ser meravellosa si no et cauen al cap...La qüestió és...somiaven en ésser alguna cosa més que danys colaterals aquests nens?
Matar dues vegades:la realitat i el somni.
Conèixes alguna mort més cruel?

ignasi ha dit...

Tens raó en tot, però crec que en educar els fills i en la permisivitat i superioritat que surten, tenen gran part de culpa els pares.

Ho tinc claríssim. No és el txa txa txa ...

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A vegades, ben sovint, és més lamentable i vergonyosa l'actitud de certs pares que no pas dels fills. Dels fills ja se sap, com diuen a ponent, "de tal palo, tal astilla".

Petjada ha dit...

Ei això de donar la culpa al txa txa txa m'ha agradat! A partir d'ara ho utilitzaré ;)

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